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Techniques that Backfire
· yelling · saying “I’m the boss here” · insisting on having the last word · using tense body language, such as rigid posture or clenched hands · using degrading, insulting, humiliating, or embarrassing put-downs · using sarcasm · attacking the student’s character · acting superior · using physical force · drawing unrelated persons into the conflict · having a double standard — making students do what I say, not what I do · insisting that I am right · preaching · making assumptions · backing the student into a corner · pleading or bribing · bringing up unrelated events · generalizing about students by making remarks such as “All you kids are the same” · making unsubstantiated accusations · holding a grudge · nagging · throwing a temper tantrum · mimicking the student · making comparisons with siblings or other students · commanding, demanding, dominatin · rewarding the student
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